很多考研的朋友在QQ上給我留言，問我如何才能取得這場命運之戰(zhàn)的勝利。其實，這個問題我也思索了很久，自覺有點心得。現(xiàn)整理如下，希望能夠給各位師弟師妹一點小小的幫助。（本文參考了卡耐基的成功學的部分理論）

　　1.Putting definiteness of purpose to work ( 將明確的目標運用于工作）

　　The first step from poverty to riches is the most difficult.The key is to realize that all the riches and all the material goods that you acquire through your own efforts begin with your having a clear,concise picture of what you seek.When that picture grows to be an obsession with you,you will find that your every action leads you toward its acquisition.

　　從貧窮到富有，第一步是最困難的。其中的關鍵，在于你必須了解所有的財富和物質的獲得，都必須先建立清晰且明確的目標；當目標的追求變成一種執(zhí)著時，你就會發(fā)現(xiàn)，你所有的行動都會帶領你朝著這個目標邁進。

　　2.Positive mental attitude(積極心態(tài)）

　　A positive mental attitude is the right mental attitude in any given situation and is most often composed of the plus characteristics symbolized by such words as" faith","integrity","hope","optimism","courage","initiative","generosity","tolerance","tact","kindness",and" good common sense".

　　積極的心態(tài)，是無論在任何情況下，都應具備的正確的心態(tài)。這種心態(tài)是由“正面”的性格因素所構成的，諸如“信心”，“正直”，“希望”，“樂觀“，”勇氣”，“進取心“，”慷慨”，“耐性”，“機智”，“親切”以及“豐富的常識”。

　　3. Tact（機智）

　　There is a right moment and a wrong moment for everything .Tact is the habit of doing and saying the right thing at the right moment.Tact is so closely related to coursety that you cannot practice one without the other.It is an invaluable skill,just as noticeable for its absence as for its presence.

　　做任何事情都有適當和不適當?shù)臅r機，機智就是要在適當?shù)臅r機做適當?shù)氖虑楹驼f適當?shù)脑�。機智和禮節(jié)有很密切的關系，一個人不可能只具備其中一種而缺少另一種特質，機智是一項無價的處世技巧，表現(xiàn)機智和缺乏機智，同樣會讓人看得見。

　　4.Demonstrating the power of your faith(戰(zhàn)線信心的力量）

　　5.Walk extra mile(多付出一點點）.

　　6.Controlling your emotions(控制你的情緒）

　　祝福各位師弟師妹心想事成，夢想成真。